The back is a large and variable area to massage and you will need to keep in mind as you work that the kind of pressure on the shoulders, lower back and buttocks needs to be different. You may find quite of a lot of tension has collected in the shoulders, especially in the 'trapezius' muscle that tuns across the shoulders, neck and upper back. Pressure here should be sensitive and only slightly firm. With tight muscles it is tempting to use hard pressure but it you press too hard the muscles will tight hack.
.final strokes - kneading and brushing
Some Sensual touches really give you partner the real Joy of life of any time.
start to knead your partner's buttocks with a satisfying, generous movement. Then press in with the heel of your hand, making deep, probing, circling movements, bringing the pressure in toward you (below left). Feel the muscles, press around the hips,
Moving to your partner's legs, pour a little more oil into your hands. Now begin to effleurage the buttocks (main picture). Fan and spread your fingers, following the body contours, around the lower back, hips and the tops of the thighs. Sweep your hands upwards and outwards, shaped to the curves of flesh, until every inch is covered with a film of oil. With your hands pressing down and inwards, circle the heels into the buttocks, moving down, upwards and out to loosen the muscles (above). Try sacral circling, then spread your hands out across the back (above). As you move the hands apart, feel the dimples and the curves of the buttocks, ending the movement with your hands curved around the hips. Moving across to the side.easing out any tensions to bring the area to life. Continue this movement with your fingertips (above), gradually easing into the hip joint to send wonderful sensations of deep release through your partner's pelvis and thighs.
This the best part of the sensual massage.
To complete the deep pressure movements, form your hand into a fist, pressing firmly, yet sensitively, with your knuckles. As your hands are now familiar with the area, you will be able to loosen tension. Press into the flesh, feeling how the buttocks respond under your touch, encouraging the muscles to release and open
The way we seem to see things means that we tend to divide them into parts. But the reality is that each area of the body opens into another and that every part is connected to the next. The powerful shoulders are needed for arm movement, the legs are affected by the lower back. The lower back leads into the swell of the buttocks, the ribs follow round to the swell of the breasts. Without judgement, preferences, likes or dislikes, simply open your mind as your fin¬gers explore. With each stroke, a whole new world opens up, every inch of skin has something different to reveal.
This is a light-hearted and stimulating movement that pulls the flesh away from the body. Keeping your wrists relaxed, pull mounds of flesh between your fingers and thumbs up toward you. Alternate your hands to make quick, light, plucking movements, enjoying the rippling of your partners flesh. This playful movement will stimulate and arouse your partner, spreading tingling or tickling sensations over the buttocks and up the back.
Now that the buttocks are alive and tingling, stroke up very, very lightly between them with the backs of your hands. Watch your partner's skin thrill to the touch as you continue. As sensations heighten, use a spreading stroke to diffuse erotic feelings.
Cup your hands over the sacrum, then slowly pull your hands apart, hugging them over the hips and hinging them down the thighs. Trail off with your fingertips as you complete the stroke.